After being a couple’s counsellor for many years, this is what I have learnt about LOVE

When I first started out as a couple’s counselor, I didn’t know how to help couples move out of emotional pain and start to make positive changes in their relationship.

But as the years went on, and I ‘learned on the job’, I discovered there were some profound lessons to learn about love from working with lots of couples.

Here are the 10 things that I’ve learned about love over the years:

• No two couples are the same.
• While no two couples are the same, most couples fall into fairly predictable patterns.
• Attraction is totally unpredictable.
• Relationships that start with a bang often end with a bigger bang.
• There is no such thing as the perfect relationship.
• Your partner can’t fulfill all your needs.
• You have more than one soul mate (if you believe in that).
• Changing your relationship is hard work, but worth it.
• Relationships can be boring and ordinary at times, and that’s OK.
• The sex can get even better in a long-term relationship.

If you feel you and your partner need help with your relationship, contact :Ann Jay  Relationship Wellbeing Specialist on 021 26 89 842 or email annjaynz@gmail.com

• FREE 15-minute phone consultation ..
• Based in the Wellington area..