Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. But does it have to be? Relationship therapist Esther Perel examines why people cheat, and unpacks why affairs are so traumatic: because they threaten our emotional security. In infidelity, she sees something unexpected — an expression of longing and loss. A must-watch for anyone who has ever cheated or been…

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I thought I would post this video to answer a common question that my clients ask regularly. “Why unavailable men adore you and single men ignore me!” Bobbi Palmer talks about the real reasons some women have amazing relationships with men who already taken, but just can’t click with single men. Listen in to Bobbi…

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Have you heard of Meetup.com? I love the whole concept behind Meetup, so I’ve been recommending it to my single clients as a way of meeting new people and cultivating new interests. And my clients are raving at it! On their about page they describe themselves like this: Meetup is the world’s largest network of local…

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Look at your History It’s helpful to look at our past. We start by looking at our current or recent relationships. · Where are the stumbling block? · If relationships keep ending, where did it go wrong? · What are the themes, patterns that keep emerging? · What ways might we be pushing or have…

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